IThere-is-sadness-in-Ximene’s-voice-because-on-the-one-hand-she-is-being-asked-to-sacrifice-everything-possibly-even-her-life-to-help-this-faith-survive-and-yet-now-she-is-being-faced-with-the-realization-that-the-courts-of-love-an-integral-part-of-the-culture-promoted-by-the-faith-can-be-used-differently-by-those-with-different-objectives.-More-generally-it-is-not-like-this.-Women-from-the-south-inherit-lands-titles-and-corresponding-responsibilities-without-any-need-to-develop-relationships-with-powerful-men.-It-did-not-make-them-any-less-feminine-any-less-desirable.-Lords-and-troubadours-both-traveled-far-to-pay-homage-to-Etiennette-de-Pennautier-who-was-known-as-Loba-the-she-wolf-in-her-own-castle.-Loba-took-many-lovers-but-she-rejected-many-more-suitors-than-she-accepted.-Those-who-pleased-her-received-her-Accolade-a-very-special-knighthood.-for-more-details-on-the-award-of-the-Accolade-see-More-about-Ximenes-World-Chivalry